A Middle Class Monk
In progress“There was silence, and then there wasn’t.”
“The power of understanding myself has been the biggest armor of my life.”

Finding the extraordinary in ordinary days — through memoir, meditation, and verse.
I write about ordinary life — the small, unremarkable days most of us live and rarely stop to notice: the cup of tea going cold, the walk home, the quiet ache of becoming someone new. My work goes looking for the meaning hidden inside the mundane, and tries to say it plainly.
People sometimes ask me where I’m headed. The honest answer took me years to say out loud: nowhere.
For most of my life I lived like a woman on her way somewhere. Every stage was a waiting room for the next, and every milestone came with the same quiet promise — this is where it finally gets better.
Then I reached a goal I had chased for a long time. People congratulated me and moved on. My to-do list was still there. Life simply went on, the way it always had.
That was the day I stopped asking where I was going, and started asking whether I could be here instead.
Now I aim for smaller destinations — ones I can reach by tonight. At the end of the day I stop and praise myself a little. I notice what I learnt. I feel grateful to be alive and well in so many unknowns. And I remember to smile.
“Nowhere” isn’t giving up. It’s the first time I’ve actually arrived.
“There was silence, and then there wasn’t.”
“The power of understanding myself has been the biggest armor of my life.”
“I got my heart inked — with your soul.”
“It was your reflection that shone brightly at night — not the moon.”
“A girl — befuddled and beautiful, broken and bold.”
Meri Kalam Se
In progress“Hum andar se behaal, aur baahar se bemisaal lage.”
“Tum bhi kis naam ke musaafir — jo darr gaye udi ek chhoti si dhool se.
Kehte ho ki tum ho anjaan raaston ke raahi — kya bana gaye har raaste pe apna ghar, phir kisi bhool se?”

Kept late at night, on slow mornings, and on the days that didn’t go to plan — by someone slowly learning to live here, instead of somewhere next.

A Middle Class Monk is still being written. Leave your email and I’ll send you the first chapter the day it’s ready — before anyone else.